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A Reddit user sparked an engaging discussion in the r/AskReddit community by asking, “What is the most thoughtful gift you’ve ever received?”
Several Reddit users came forward to share their personal stories and experiences. Many others added valuable insights and thoughtful gift suggestions. The Reddit community offered a wide mix of humor, creativity, and emotion. We explored those threads to find the most engaging and meaningful contributions. This article compiles the best stories and recommendations shared by Reddit users.
Thoughtful Gift Stories Shared by Reddit Users
#1. A Love Story Bound in Pages: The Most Thoughtful Valentine’s Gift Ever
My favorite book in high school was a paperback that had been passed around and read (and underlined, and highlighted, and signed) by 20-30 friends. By the time I reached college, the cover was gone and it was in pretty bad shape. For our first Valentine’s together, my college boyfriend bought a new copy of the book, removed the cover, reinforced it, and used it to re-bind my copy of it. It meant so, so much, and I knew he heard me when I talked about what was important to me. We were together for four years.
#2. The Most Thoughtful 18th Birthday Gift: Solving a Mystery from My Childhood
When I was a kid, my sister was dating the guy across the street. He and my sister would watch movies every Friday in our living room but I wasn’t allowed to watch because the movies would be too scary, inappropriate, etc.
One day he came over to watch a movie and I snuck in and watched a little. That movie scared the ever loving crap out of me and I got kicked out when they found out I was there. They never told me the name of the movie. Ever since then I had tried explaining the parts I saw to everyone I was friends with (before I could just google it) and could never find out what it was. Classic ‘tip of my tongue’.
The last time I tried explaining it was to my high school girlfriend right when we started dating, when I was a sophomore. Still nothing, oh well.
For my 18th birthday she gives me the DVD. She had done her own investigating and found out for me. It meant so much, probably the best present I’ve ever gotten. The movie was The Gate, which is still rad. I still own it!
#3. A Long-Distance Friendship, Captured in the Pages of a Notebook
Just before I moved one of my best friends gave me a cute notebook so that I could write down all my futur projects. When I got to my new place I was so busy unpacking all my boxes that I ended up putting it in a draw and forgetting about it. A few months later I found it again and opened it and realised she’d written pages and pages of notes about our friendship and stuff. It was like a warm hug from her even though she was on the other side of the world.
#4. The Christmas Gift That Proved I Was Truly Loved
I’ve always been a huge fan of Kurt Vonnegut. One summer my then boyfriend now husband and I were in a book store and I saw a signed KV book behind a glass case that was like $500.00, and I casually said “Someday when I’m rich, I’m going to buy that book.” That Christmas, we were living together and when I opened my gift that morning I immediately started crying. It was that exact signed copy. It wasn’t the book so much that made me cry, it was just the first moment I felt with confidence that someone really did love me.
#5. A Crystal, a Wooden Duck, and the Love That Never Fades
My dad was a geophysicist and a rock collector (so help me do not tell me they’re minerals- some of them are just plain rocks). He loved his rocks. He would go on a crystal dig every fall with his twin brother- World Championship Crystal dig in Mount Ida, Arkansas. They won most years. And he’d come back with 5-gallon buckets full of quartz clusters and points. He also discovered Ebay and our already impressive rock collection around the house grew. Every available flat surface seemed to have rocks on it. Where wine normally is held- rocks. China cabinet- rocks. Entertainment center- TV and rocks. You get the picture. They were beautiful and well displayed, but everywhere.
One time I came home from college and he’d gotten a new specimen. A cathedral geode, but instead of the normal amethyst this one was citrine. It was gorgeous- orange crystals with a dark rock outside and a white lining. I thought it was so cool and commented on it. That christmas I opened up a very heavy package to find my own. He’d remembered that one comment and jumped on it. I have that geode in my home today- my most prized possession.
The other gift that means a lot came from my grandma. My grandma has lived in the same house for more than 50 years. She has SO MUCH stuff. Not a hoarder- her house is very neat- but she just has a ton of stuff. For birthdays and Christmas she will usually go into her spare room and select something to give to you (along with a check- the actual present). For one of my birthdays recently she gave me a carved wooden duck. On the bottom are my dad’s initials and his age at the time- 14. He had loved woodworking and this was one of his first projects. It was so sweet of her to find and give me that. I know it must have meant a lot to her- he was her baby boy. But she gave it to me to have anyway.
#6. The Most Meaningful Christmas Gift: Hearing My Dad’s Voice After 30 Years
It’s small but meant the world to me. My family wasn’t really into documenting things growing up and my dad died when I was a kid so I had just a few pictures and an old home movie from Christmas 91. Every year or so I’d pop in the tape and watch the 5ish minutes of my dad and I’d remember his expressions and his voice and it helped when I felt down about it. It’s a nearly 30 year old tape and the quality has been dropping over the years. I popped it in this past November (anniversary of his death) and the tape was grainy and the sound was spotty and crackly to the point I couldn’t hear his voice at all. I was crushed. I was bummed about it for a month and on Christmas morning my wife hands me a card and inside it was an unlabeled DVD. She had it transferred over and the guy who did it did some magic and the sound was back and perfect. I watched it, cried my eyes out and my sons got to clearly hear their grandfather’s voice for the first time.
#7. The Trouble Tree: The Most Thoughtful Gift My Dad Ever Gave Me
I came home from work one day to find my dad in my front yard planting a mini pine tree. It’s still only like 3 feet tall to this day. I asked him what was up as I walked up to my door, wondering why him and my girlfriend we’re covered in sweat and dirt in the Florida heat. He pointed to the tree I hadn’t noticed yet and said “I bought you a trouble tree.”.
My whole life, my parents kept a tree near the front door, and they always said that when you get home, you leave all your troubles from the outside at the tree, so you’re at peace in your house. It’s always served as a reminder to let yourself be at ease when you are at home.
Thoughtful Gift Suggestions from Reddit Users
#1. Personalized Necklace
My 15-year-old daughter had a necklace custom made for me at Christmas. She spent her own money and picked my favorite color stone. It’s the only gift I’ve ever cried upon receiving.
#2. Bracelet with Two Letters
I have had some lovely ones. Most recently last Christmas, my “Secret Santa” gift was a bracelet with two letters attached to it. The letters spelt out the nickname that my much loved (now adult) nephew has had for me since he was little, and was obviously from him and his also much loved partner. I was really touched.
#3. A pair of cats
My son’s friend gave us two cats 10 years ago. Unfortunately, one died, but the other is still alive and giving us joy!!
#4. A Canvas Painting
A friend made me a Canvas painting with my dad’s date of death, written in Roman numerals. Simple and extremely thoughtful of her.
#5. Spotify Premium
Spotify premium, still one of the best gift i have received and also something i used regularly which i got from my sibling. I didn’t ask or even hinted about it but because she saw me using it often been using it for few years and she’s been paying for its subscription.
#6. Handmade Cards
My bsf makes handmade card every year for my birthday and even if we’re not in the same city she gives it to me when we meet.
#7. An Album of Gratitude
Before retirement, I ran a training program for a federal agency. The young people I trained each wrote a paragraph about how I’d helped them, advice I’d given, etc., assembled it into a small album, and presented me with it.
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